We All Want to Change, But Not All of Us Will
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October 7, 2025
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We all want to be successful, no matter what success may mean to you, whether it’s having good shape, wealth, financial freedom, or being happy. To reach success we need to change and we know that but why not all of us can?
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The Unending Pursuit of Change
Change is a fundamental aspect of life, and it manifests in various forms. From small adjustments in daily routines to major life decisions, the desire to evolve and grow is part of our human nature. But why not everyone can successfully navigate this path of transformation?
The Psychology of Change
Understanding the psychology of change is crucial in addressing this question. Human behavior is complex, and our resistance to change often stems from fear, comfort zones, or simply the inertia of our habits. Let’s get that clear.
The Comfort
One of the primary reasons why we struggle to change is the allure of comfort. We tend to stay in familiar situations, even if they are far from ideal, simply because they are known and predictable. It takes a lot of guts and courage to take the risk of stepping into the unknown.
Fear of Failure
Another significant barrier to change is the fear of failure. The prospect of not succeeding in our efforts can be paralyzing. This fear often prevents us from taking the first step towards transformation, even though failure is a natural part of any growth process.
How To Actually Change?
Now that we know what may prevent us from getting that change, we should also know that a meaningful transformation is possible. Cause a lot of people did that so can’t we?
The power of the environment
When we want to heal a sick goldfish, we treat the water. The same goes for our lives. To eliminate bad habits and seek positive change, we need to alter our environment.
Our environment contains our physical space, homes and workplaces, and the people we are surrounded by. It also includes our digital space: the individuals we follow on social media, the apps we use daily, and the streaming platforms we visit to relax. Whether we realize it or not, our environment profoundly impacts our life outcomes. Associating with unambitious individuals might hinder our growth, and following thoughtless influencers can shape our perspectives negatively. Change your environment before it changes you!
Build habits
Our life is a compound of what we do every day, from the time we wake up to how we do small tasks, they are those small actions that we do subconsciously and un-subconsciously.
Write a vision and make a plan
Writing a vision is like creating a map, it’s your guiding angel in a world full of distractions. It helps you know where you want to go and focus on what you truly desire. A plan, on the other hand, is a set of steps that you need to follow to reach your vision. It helps you organize your time and resources, making sure you are on the right path toward achieving your goal. Without a vision, you may feel lost, and without a plan, reaching your goal can become a confusing and difficult task.
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As you came here, you have all what you need to be among the 1%, to be with the “ELITE”, those who want to change and will change. You have what it takes to turn comfort and fear into success because this time you will treat the water, not the goldfish.